A wedding is one of life’s most joyous occasions, an
event you’ll want to share with friends and relatives.
These days, however, your dearest are not always
nearest. To be sure out-of-town guests are part of the
celebration, consider reserving a block of rooms for
the weekend at an inn or a hotel.
Hotel managers and innkeepers offer this advice:
- • Make reservations as soon as your wedding
date is set. (See “Wedding Dates” for guidance.)
A minimum of six months’ notice
is recommended; busier hotels and inns
may require a year. The hotel will hold the
rooms available (at the group rate) until a
specified cut-off date, usually three to four
weeks before the wedding. After that date,
rooms will be subject to availability and
the going rate. Some hotels provide an
updated reservation list every few weeks.
- • Many accommodation sites offer special
package rates if you also hold food and
beverage functions, such as brunch,
bridesmaids’ luncheon or reception,
on-site. Most also include a complimentary
hospitality suite or bridal suite if you
reserve a certain number of rooms. Often,
the bride’s or groom’s parents choose to
make the hotel or inn their headquarters
for the weekend of the wedding so they
can relax and spend time with relatives.
Don’t forget to include them, or yourself, in
the head count.
- • Ask what other services, such as transportation
to and from the airport, are available.
If all your guests are staying at the same
hotel, they can assist each other in getting
to and from the various wedding events.
Most hotels, however, work with local
limousine or executive car services and
will be happy to arrange transportation for
your guests, whether you need one car or
a double-decker bus. Hotel staff can often
help with recommendations on everything
from caterers to florists.
- • Consider your guests’ needs when selecting
a site. An inn or bed-and-breakfast
offers privacy and a cozy, homelike
environment. Hotels offer other amenities
such as exercise rooms and workout
equipment. Will individual rooms suffice
or do you need suites for families with
young children? Can the hotel provide
wheelchairs, portable cribs or baby-sitting
services? Visit each site personally. Is the
property attractive and convenient? Is the
staff friendly, helpful and knowledgeable?
- • Be considerate of guests’ travel budgets.
Offer alternative places to stay, at several
price ranges.
- • Provide guests with written room and rate
information along with a map or directions
and phone numbers. (Some hotels can
provide this for you.)
- • If possible, plan a welcoming basket to
make your guests’ stay as comfortable
and convenient as possible. Helpful items
might include snacks, toiletries, fresh flowers,
an itinerary of the weekend’s events, a
sewing kit, aspirin and information on local
events and attractions.
Family and friends will travel far and wide
to be with you on your special day. It’s important
for you to plan ahead for their arrival, to ensure
that their time in the Sacramento area is as
enjoyable and comfortable as possible, whether
they are staying for a night, for the entire weekend
or longer.
If possible, arrange a block of rooms at a
conveniently located hotel so guests can attend
functions together. In addition, you’ll want to
research different methods of transportation
(planes, trains, automobiles) and provide this
information to your guests well in advance of
their visit. Include this information, and a map,
with your invitation. For maps of the Sacramento
area, go online at www.mapquest.com.
Whether your out-of-town guests are traveling
50 miles or 500, a little planning on your
part can express your appreciation and perhaps
relieve some post-travel stress. Here are a few
suggestions:
- • A “glad you can make it” letter outlining the
events of the weekend. Include phone numbers
that might be helpful to people who are
not familiar with the area.
- • A gift basket in each guest’s room can be the
perfect welcome gift . With a small number of
out-of-towners, you may be able to customize
each basket — perhaps a mini-spa gift certificate for someone who enjoys being pampered
or a gym pass for the fitness enthusiast. It’s
probably best to make standard baskets for all
if your out-of-town guest list is large.
- • For families traveling with children, a kiddypack
could be just the answer your guests are
looking for. Coloring books, crayons and
cards may be the perfect stress reliever.
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